Joke for the day:
Husband: honey we’re having company for supper
Wife: what?!?!? the house is a mess, all the dishes are dirty, and I don’t feel like cooking a fancy meal!
Husband: I know all of that….
Wife: then why are bringing your friend over for supper?
Husband: because this poor fool is thinking of getting married!!
It’s a sad but true fact that divorce rates have been quiet high for a while now. I can say that I am happily married! but for so many out there its a very different story. There are so many things now a days that are marriage killers for example: all the celebrities who get married for 72 hours and then decide umm ya I don’t think I like enough to stay married to you. Now don’t get me wrong I’m sure….well I would hope they went into this sacred union wanting to spend the rest of their life with one another and not doing it for publicity but only they will truly know. My point is what happened to marriage being a sacred thing that you only enter into if you truly love the person your marrying and truly want to spend you life with them?
I think that we should refocus our priorities when it comes to the big leap. My husband and I got married very young and I was 6 months pregnant as well. So many people thought there is no way in hell these two kids are gonna make it….and so very many were praying for our sake and for the sake of our son we made it. After all the dust settles its on you and your partner to keep your marriage going its an everyday thing! My husband and I decided before we were married that this was it we wanted to be a family and we wanted to be with each other forever.
So folks my positive thinking for today is this whatever you reason for marrying the person you did remember: when times get tough this person is there to help get you through hard times, when you need someone there for whatever reason they are there every time, and if god forbid your thinking about ending your union remember something drew you to this person for some reason, you fell in love with them for a reason so before you throw in the towel makes sure you can walk away saying I TRIED EVERYTHING TO MAKE IT WORK and it just was not the right thing and or person for me at this time.
Always make sure your significant other stays just that! SIGNIFICANT! If you do find the ONE make sure that they know without a shadow of a doubt that they are loved and cherished! Marriage is a wonderful special thing and shouldn’t be taken lightly!
SO GO OUT THERE FALL IN LOVE AND MAKE SURE ITS REALLY WHAT YOU WANT BECAUSE IF IT DOESNT WORK OUT YOUR NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO WILL BE HURTING!
Thanks for reading
positively absolutely crazy woman